I’m Thinking it Over (Scenes From a Marriage Part Seven)
Robber: “Your money or your life.” [pause] Robber: “Well?” [pause] Jack Benny: “I’m thinking it over!” That’s an old joke about being frugal. Sometimes, we are faced with that exact question, in other terms, and we have to come up with a logical answer. Chances are, the pause will be longer than it was in the joke. The real joke is that, at some point, your money is your life. The problem with it is that you don’t always know when it will come to fruition. My advice to young people would be, “assume that the time is tomorrow.” Generally , we go through life thinking that we will live forever and that we can continue to live the way we always have. It’s difficult to see into the future and imagine a time when we will have to get by from week to week with nothing but what we have saved and what little the federal government will be giving us. I remember (back to my marriage again) sitting in our living room, making out checks for our bills,...